Incident of burying girls alive.

The story of the companion Dahiyyatul Kalbi.

Incident of burying girls alive.

The story of the companion Dahiyyatul Kalbi.

Dahiyyatul Kalbi was a very beautiful companion of my Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). If you open the history of the days of ignorance, you will see that women were disgraced in society. The Prophet of Allah gave freedom to women. He gave us dignity. Women were buried alive. A father would bury his daughter alive. He felt no pity, no mercy. Then look at the companion of the Prophet, Dahiyyatul Kalbi, who buried his daughter alive with his own hands. After he became a Muslim, my Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, Dahiyyatul Kalbi, you have become a Muslim, a companion. Allah has forgiven all your sins. The companion of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), Dahiyyatul Kalbi, shed tears and said, "O my Lord, all sins can be forgiven, but not one sin of mine will be forgiven." The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, What heavier sin have you committed?

She cry and ask don't kill me, Save my life!

Now the companion Dahyatul Kalbi was crying; tears were flowing down his cheeks like a fountain. He let go of his tears and cried like an orphan and said, O my Lord, my child, my daughter calls me papa papa, and she calls her mother mom mom. When I returned home after four years from my journey, I saw that my daughter had grown up quite a bit. I started scolding her mother: Why was this girl buried alive when she was young? No. She said, "My husband, look at her. Just as Allah has made you beautiful, Allah has also made your daughter beautiful like you. That is why I named her Jamila (beautiful). How can I bury such a beautiful girl alive? That night, when I went to bed, between my wife and me, the girl called me papa—once, turning to me, and then to her mother's chest when she said mom. I started thinking about such a beautiful girl! Oh, what a shame to be a father of a girl! Then I decided in my heart that tomorrow morning I will dig a hole on the edge of the mountain and bury my daughter alive. I got up in the morning and said to my wife, Get Jamila bathed and fed; I will take Jamila for a walk. My wife bathed her daughter and put new clothes on her and fed her two lokma, food like a baby. I took the girl and set off. Prophet, I went far away to the side of the mountain and started digging a hole. While digging, small pieces of soil got stuck on my beard. My Jamila stood next to me and covered her beard with her hands and kept saying, "Father, what kind of cave is this? What kind of hole is this, and for whom are you digging it? Make it so deep. Prophet, I said, go away, my daughter, and eat; after a while you will understand what kind of hole it is." When the hole was made, I called out, "Jamila, come, let's see what can be seen inside the cave." The girl said, "My father, my father," and ran to the hole from a distance. "What is happening to you, father?" She said, "What can you see inside the hole?" "Prophet, what a cruel father I am, what a cruel father I am. I didn't feel any pity for her. I pushed Jamila from behind and threw her into the hole, covering her with stones and dirt. Jamila looked at me and said, "Father, I kept asking my mother, 'Mom, when will my father come? Just to see you for a moment, just to call you 'papa.' Oh father, I didn't know before that you would come as my Azrael. Father, don't kill me, father, don't kill me. I will never call you 'Father' again. I will never show you this face. I will beg and eat in every country, but don't kill me. Save my life!" Dahiya said, "Lord, what is happening to you?" Jamila fell into the cave, raised her hands, cried and cried, and said, "Father, there is no cruel father like you in this world." I left without listening to anything and walked away on the flat ground.

There is no cruel father like you in this world.

Huzoor (sallallahu alaihi wasallam), even if Allah forgives all sins, this sin cannot be forgiven. Huzoor (sallallahu alaihi wasallam), even today, when the night falls, the night ends, and I cannot sleep. Even when I sleep, I see in my dreams the girl crying loudly inside my cave and saying, Father! There is no cruel father like you in this world. Huzoor (peace be upon him) said, O Companion, listen, the day you committed the wrong, you were an infidel; you did not understand. Today, when you became a Muslim, recited the Kalima, became my companion, and took refuge under the cool shade of Islam, Allah, the Lord of the Worlds, has forgiven even such a great wrong. Since you have read,

لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ مُحَمَّدٌ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ 

(La ilaha illallahu Muhammad rasul Allah)

 There is no god but Allah and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.

In those days, people thought that it was a sin to become a girl, so as soon as she was born, the father would bury her alive.

After receiving the Prophethood, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) declared that women are free. Women are forever free. You cannot bury girls alive like this. Islam has given us freedom, so the responsibility for all mothers and sisters is to know the law of Allah, understand the Messenger of Allah, and build their lives accordingly. You are a Muslim; knowing the Quran and Hadith is obligatory for you. You will be questioned on the Day of Judgment. This life is not life; another life will come; in that life we will have to rise. This youth and health will not be there. It will end. After being in the grave, we will have to rise. Get ready before going to the field of resurrection. Sisters - I have been busy with worldly affairs all my life, leaving aside religious affairs. When (death) was approaching, a scholar came and said—

بِسْمِ اللهِ عَلَى مِلَّةِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ

(Bismillahi ala millati Rasulillah)

In the name of Allah, upon the religion of the Messenger of Allah.

He placed me in the grave in the Prophet's chariot. When you were young and had the power of thought, you did not get on the Prophet's chariot. You placed your dead body in the Prophet's chariot. I swear, the Messenger of Allah will not accept your dead body.

Young come back.

Young girls/boys, come back, come back; may your thinking power be good. I pray to Allah. Worship is not just prayer, fasting, Hajj, and Zakat. Worship is performing all the tasks of life correctly according to Allah's command. The same Allah who has commanded us to pray has commanded us to wear a veil. The same Allah who has commanded us to perform Hajj has forbidden adultery. The same Allah who has commanded us to give Zakat has forbidden lying, complaining, backbiting, showing off, envy, and arrogance. He has forbidden us to oppress people. He has forbidden us to disobey our parents. If you obey some things and do not obey others, you cannot be a Muslim. Worship is when you obey Allah's laws in all aspects of life. A Muslim is a person whose hands will keep people safe. People will benefit. Your character should match your prayers. Prayer, fasting, Hajj, and Zakat are musts, but this is not the end. Don't think that you have done everything. A Muslim does not abuse another Muslim; my Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) never abused anyone in his entire life. Allah the Almighty says in the Quran, do not abuse anyone. Do not distort anyone's name, do not mock anyone, do not ridicule any family, do not look down on anyone.

Salatun ya Rasulullah Alaikum,

Salatun ya Habiballah Alaikum.

When you follow the rules of the Messenger,

Allah will be yours.

What is the use of iron and pen in this world?

Everyone will be yours.

Salatun ya Rasulullah Alaikum,

Salatun ya Habiballah Alaikum.

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