Benefit remember Allah's command.

Why men do not like their wives. Here is some solution and benefit of remember Allah's command.

 

Benefit remember Allah's command.

Why men do not like their wives. Here is some solution and benefit of remember Allah's command.

My wife is not ugly. But I don't know why I don't like him anymore. We have been married, for five years. We have a three-year-old son.

Why men do not like their wives.

I leave the office to hang out with friends. I come back late at night. Because I don't feel like going home. But at the beginning of our marriage, I would only run home from the office because of my wife. If I weren't at work, I would stay home all day. I would go out with her. How my wife liked it then!

And now I don't want to look at her. I don't want to talk. I feel annoyed when she's around.

When I'm out, I don't pick up her phone. I don't see her when she sends me a message. And when I'm at home, I just keep quiet and say, "Don't bother me. I've been working all day. Let me sleep."

 

Actually, it's not about being tired. My wife doesn't like it.

I don't understand why this is happening. This problem is not unique to me. I have seen this problem in many other men. Some of them lose interest in their wives and have extramarital affairs. I myself have not had extramarital affairs yet. But I am moving towards it.

All the men I spoke to to find out why men lose interest in their wives at some point had the same answer: "It's normal. What makes you like one thing for a long time?"

Their answer didn't seem right to me. Because if it were normal for wives to not like one thing for a long time, it would be the same for wives. But it doesn't happen.

Wives, no matter how many years they have been married, still want to talk to their husbands with interest. They want to go out. They want to have sex.

At one point, I thought, Is this a mental problem in men? Will seeing a doctor make it better?

I went to a psychiatrist secretly one day with a confused mind.

After listening to my problem, the doctor asked, "Do you believe in God?"

I said, "Yes, I do."

"I will tell you about a command from Allah. If you can obey it, your problem will go away. You will not need any medicine. I guarantee it."

"What is it?"

"In Surah An-Nur, Allah says, "O Prophet, tell men to lower their gaze and guard their private parts. That is a more pure way for them."

Then the doctor said in a firm voice, "Follow this command from Allah for a month. Then you will understand the change yourself."

I said with doubt, "Will this work?"

The doc looktor smiled and said, "Of course it will. But you have to promise me that you will follow this command from Allah perfectly. Do not make any mistakes."

"I promise. I will not make any mistakes. I will follow it perfectly."

Finally, the doctor said, "Come to me after a month."

Remember Allah's command.

I said I would come and left the doctor's chamber. While leaving the chamber, I saw a young, beautiful girl entering the doctor's chamber with an old woman.

The girl's body is very attractive. When I looked at the girl's entire body with a lustful gaze, I suddenly remembered Allah's command. I immediately averted my eyes. And walked away with my head down.

Then, if I saw a girl on the way, I would avert my eyes. I would walk with my eyes down.

After two days of going like this, I felt restlessness inside me to see a female body. But I still did not feel attracted to my wife. To relieve the restlessness, I picked up my mobile. And decided to watch porn. Then I would masturbate and cool myself down.

At the moment I typed the name of the porn website in Google and searched, I remembered Allah's command. I immediately changed my decision. And put my mobile down.

Let me tell you about the next day. I told you that I was not having extramarital affairs, but I was moving towards extramarital affairs. The fact is, a secret relationship had started to develop with a girl known to a friend of mine.

The girl was very sexually attractive. I decided to take the girl to visit night club for a few days. I did not tell the girl that I was married.

That girl called that evening. I had just left the office. Seeing her phone, my heart was filled with joy. But when I picked up the phone, I remembered Allah's command.

I immediately hardened my mind. And I did not pick up the phone. Every time the girl called, I did not pick up.

After spending fifteen days in this way, keeping my eyes in check and guarding my private parts, I noticed that nothing else was working in my head except the thought of my wife.

That day, instead of going to my friends' gathering, I ran towards my house like a madman.

As soon as I entered the house, I called out anxiously, "Esha, where are you?"

My wife was in the kitchen at that time. Hearing my scream, she came running. Because I had not called her by her name for a long time.

She was surprised and said, "What happened to you? Why are you calling?"

Without answering those words, I threw my office bag from my shoulder and quickly picked up my wife in my arms. As I used to do at the beginning of my marriage.

 

She understood my intention by then.

She blushed with shame and said, "The boy is sleeping. He will wake up. What are you going to do? What are you going to do?"

I walked into the room with my wife in my arms and said in a hushed voice, "I love Esha. I love you."

The next day I went to the doctor.

The doctor said, "It hasn't even been a month yet."

I smiled and said, "The problem is gone. I now understand why men lose interest in their wives. I will never make the same mistakes again."

The doctor said, "Welcome to you. My sincere best wishes for your family."

I left the doctor's chamber and looked at the sky and said in a happy voice, "Alhamdulillah" "Thank you, Allah. Thank you very much."